Destination weddings, either within the US or further afield, have been increasing in popularity in recent years. However, there are both pros and cons when it comes to hosting your wedding in a foreign country- or a different state. If you are on the fence, and yet dreaming of sunnier climes, this quick guide can help you to weigh up your options.
The Pros
- A Choice of Venues
Your venue can make all the difference to your big day. The event venue that you choose can impact your catering and the quality of your wedding breakfast, as well as your photographs, and, most importantly, your memories of your special day. Sometimes, your local area does not have the beaches, mountains, or other stunning views that you want to form the backdrop of your wedding, nor does it have a venue that is either historical or contemporary enough for your tastes. By traveling further afield, you will be able to have your pick of the venues that match your vision for your big day.
- You Can Have Your Wedding Your Way
Many people pressure from family or even friends during the build-up to their wedding day. They might feel as if they are forced to invite acquaintances or distant relatives, wear certain outfits, or follow a specific schedule that they will not enjoy. However, by traveling further for your wedding, you may be able to escape expectations and celebrate with a private, smaller ceremony that better matches your personality and your own desires. This will allow you to focus simply on you and your partner rather than outside influences.
The Cons
- Your Guests Will Have to Travel
The major issue with traveling to tie the knot is that it can be hard for all your loved ones to travel the same distance, especially if you have elderly relatives or if this is going to make attendance expensive. This may mean that, if you travel far, you will not be able to have all your family around you on your big day. This may be especially important to people who are close to their families and who have always dreamed of a big family wedding. Remember that one of the most vital elements of a wedding for many people is celebrating your love with the people who are important to you.
- It Can Be More Stressful
Trying to organize a wedding is one of the most stressful projects that you will ever work on, but having a destination wedding can make this even harder. You will not be able to simply turn up at your venue to ask questions or to check that your wedding is going to plan, and you will have to manage an assortment of vendors from afar. It can also be harder to develop a back-up plan, and to work out how you are going to transport all your wedding necessities to the right place in time. This pre-wedding stress can be worth it, though, if you have found a dream destination that encapsulates everything that you want from your wedding.
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